A lot of people think it’s about babies.
A lot of people think it’s about sex.
A lot of people think it’s about birth control.
A lot of people think it’s about religious freedom.
And it’s about all those things…just not in the way that most of those people think it is.
What it absolutely, utterly, unequivocally, ineffably, undeniably, explicitly, and totally is NOT about is “life.”
But the people who call themselves “pro-life” have convinced a lot of people that it is, and that effort of theirs has paid dividends, with a majority of Americans calling themselves “pro-life” and at over one-fifth thinking abortion should be illegal under all circumstances or even treated as murder, and abortion being de facto or de jure illegal in much of the world.
But if it were about life, Savita Halappanavar would still be alive. So would George Tiller. Every time someone dies from something that an abortion would have prevented, the name “pro-life” is shown to be a lie—mere propaganda. The realities of the “pro-life” position show an extremely narrow view of life that includes zygotes and fetuses but excludes…pretty much everything after that. It’s why I call them “forced-birthers” instead.
No, what’s really at stake here is something much more fundamental than any of that.
Full, realized, undisputed persons. Cis women. Trans men. People, and the right of people to decide what happens inside their own bodies.
The common conversations about “fetal personhood” is a distraction from the basic fact of the matter. The abortion debate is about whether people have the right to decide what happens inside their own bodies.
Forced-birthers, in particular those from Catholic backgrounds, like to talk about a “doctrine of double effect” and hold the notion that the right approach to any conflict between the (actual) rights of a pregnant person and the (supposed, illusory) rights of a fetus must be handled in a way that gives equal standing to both entities.
Listen to that: equal standing to both entities.
It’s easy to see why this idea has so much popular approval. It sounds so prima facie reasonable, weighing the interests of two affected parties against each other and treating them both “fairly.”
It’s also, not to put too fine a point on it, a crock of shit.
What this thought process and its assorted variants deliberately ignore is that a fetus and the person hosting it are not separate ethical agents. One of them is, yes. The other one is not even close to being an autonomous, separate being, thanks to its being physiologically entangled in and dependent on the other and subjecting hir to all manner of serious risks and consequences as a result. What we actually have is one being siphoning off the other’s resources at substantial risk to them, without their permission. If that entity is a person, we call that assault, and permit them the right of self-defense. If that entity is not a person, we call that parasitism, and permit them the right of medical treatment. Curiously, forced-birthers never seem to answer the question of “Which is it?”
What we actually have is a situation where it is flat-out IMPOSSIBLE to treat a fetus and the person hosting it as individual, equivalent, autonomous ethical agents. Any attempt to treat a fetus as such, and preserve it against its host’s wishes, immediately, necessarily, and inescapably takes that same autonomy and agency away from the person. The “pro-life,” forced-birth position is that justice is served when cis women and trans men are forced, by law, to surrender the use of their bodies to another entity against their will, and to suffer any of various health consequences up to and including death in the service of that entity.
This is a model where, as soon as someone becomes pregnant, any and all rights they might previously have had are immediately transferred to their fetus. As forced-birthers tell it, once a person becomes pregnant, their body is no longer their own, and now belongs to the incipient baby they are hosting. Far from “equal standing for both entities,” this is a doctrine that differs from slavery for pregnant people only in semantics.
And they have WOMEN supporting them. SO MANY WOMEN. Because they’ve managed to convince people that it’s not about misogyny, not about sexism, not about keeping women barefoot and pregnant, not about making sure that cis women’s lot in our society is bound up in their biology in a way that simply isn’t true for men…but about babies.
Sweet, adorable babies that they’re condemning to lives of poverty, privation, and horrible pain with their politics.
We have to remind them what’s at stake.
We have to remind them that this is about the most basic freedom of all, the freedom that underlies all others and without which the word “freedom” is just so many bald eagle decals on a fascist jackboot.
We have to remind them that this is about whether we are prepared to accept people with uteruses as full and equal participants in our society.
We have to remind them that this is not about whether fetuses are people.
It’s about whether women are people, and about how one day, we won’t have to convince people of that any more.